Parents ek bhai/behen ko zyada prefer karte hain — kya karu?
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Quick Answer
Sibling favoritism deeply painful hai. Tumhara dard valid hai. Maya helps process the hurt and communicate.
Detailed Answer
"Bhai ko naya phone diya, mujhe nahi." "Behen ki shaadi pe itna kharcha, meri pe nahi." "Wo jo bole wo sahi, main jo bolun wo galat." Favoritism subtle bhi hota hai aur obvious bhi.
Types: Financial favoritism — ek ko zyada paisa/gifts. Emotional favoritism — ek ki baat zyada suni jaati hai. Achievement favoritism — ek ki success zyada celebrate, ek ki ignore. Freedom favoritism — ek ko zyada chhoot, doosre pe restrictions.
Impact: Self-worth damage — "Main enough nahi hoon." Sibling se resentment — bhai/behen se rishta kharab. Overachieving — parents ko prove karne ke liye. People pleasing — "shayad agar aur achha karunga toh pyar milega."
Kya kare: 1) Parents se baat karo — specific examples do. "Jab aapne X ko Y diya aur mujhe nahi, mujhe laga main important nahi hoon." 2) Sibling se baat karo — usually unhe bhi pata hai aur uncomfortable feel karte hain. 3) Apni worth khud define karo — parents ka validation zaroori feel hota hai par compulsory nahi hai. 4) Boundaries — agar comparison se hurt hota hai toh clearly bolo.
Accept karo (harsh truth): Kuch parents kabhi nahi badlenge. Tumhara kaam hai apni healing karna aur apni zindagi build karna — unki approval ke bina.
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