Partner ke past relationships se problem ho rahi hai — kaise deal karu?
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Quick Answer
Retroactive jealousy — partner ke past se insecure feel karna. Priya helps you cope with this common issue.
Detailed Answer
Partner ne bataya — "Pehle X relationships the." Ab tumhare dimag mein — "Unke saath kya kiya? Unse zyada pyar karta/karti tha kya? Comparison ho rahi hai kya?" Retroactive jealousy.
Normal vs Problematic: Normal — thodi curiosity, thoda discomfort. Process karo, move on. Problematic — obsessively sochna, interrogation, anger, constant comparison.
Kya samjho: 1) Past PAST hai — wo us time ke insaan the, ab different hain. 2) Wo tumhe CHOOSE kiya — sabse important fact. 3) Past experiences ne unhe wo banaya jo aaj hain — tumhe jo partner mila usmein past ka contribution hai. 4) Tumhara bhi past hai — fair raho.
Kaise cope kare: 1) Details mat pucho — "Exactly kya kiya tha?" type questions se sirf pain milega. 2) Comparison band karo — tum unke past nahi ho. 3) Present pe focus karo — abhi kya hai, not pehle kya tha. 4) Communication — "Mujhe insecure feel hota hai jab tumhare past ki baat hoti hai" — express karo. 5) Therapy — agar obsessive ho raha hai toh professional help.
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