Partner apne ex se abhi bhi baat karta hai — okay hai kya?
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Quick Answer
Ex se baat karna itself red flag nahi hai — par context matters. Priya helps evaluate your specific situation.
Detailed Answer
Partner ka ex se contact — immediately insecure feel hota hai. Par kya har situation mein wrong hai?
Acceptable situations: Genuinely friends hain (years ho gaye breakup ko). Common friend group hai. Work colleagues hain. Co-parenting hai. Tum meet kar chuki/chuke ho us ex ko. Transparency hai — tumhe pata hai.
NOT acceptable: Chhupa raha hai contact. Late night personal messages. Ex se tumhari comparison. "Tum samajhti nahi, wo samajhti/samajhta tha." Ex ko relationship ke details bata raha. Emotionally dependent hai ex pe.
Kaise handle kare: 1) Accuse mat karo — "Tumhara affair chal raha hai" se baat bigadegi. 2) Express karo — "Mujhe uncomfortable lagta hai. Kya hum baat kar sakte hain?" 3) Boundaries together decide karo — "Group mein milna okay hai. One-on-one dinner nahi." 4) Meet the ex — agar possible ho toh. Transparency builds trust.
Important: Agar tum secure ho relationship mein — ex se friendship bother nahi karegi. Insecurity analyze karo — past trauma? Current evidence? Combination?
Priya on getboli.com partner-ex dynamic objectively evaluate karti hai. 24/7, Hindi, free.
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- High Therapy Costs: Professional therapy costs ₹1,500–3,000 per session, making it inaccessible for the majority.
- Accessible Support: Having someone who listens without judgment—in your language and on your schedule—is critical for everyday challenges like breakups, relationship stress, or family pressure.
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