Breakup ke baad bahut weight badh ya kam ho gaya — kya karu?
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Quick Answer
Stress eating ya appetite loss breakup mein common hai. Body ko blame mat karo — heal karo. Neha helps with emotional eating patterns.
Detailed Answer
Breakup ke baad do extremes hote hain — ya toh kuch khaya nahi jaata, ya toh bahut zyada kha rahe ho. Dono stress response hain.
Weight loss (appetite gone): Stomach mein knot feel hota hai. Khane ka mann nahi karta. Nauseated feel hota hai. Energy bahut kam hai.
Weight gain (emotional eating): Late night snacking for comfort. Junk food cravings increase. "Kya farak padta hai" attitude se diet abandon. Binge eating episodes.
Kyun hota hai: Cortisol (stress hormone) appetite directly affect karta hai — kuch logon mein suppress karta hai, kuch mein increase. Emotional eating comfort mechanism hai — food dopamine release karta hai temporarily.
Kya kare: 1) Perfection mat dhundho — balanced meals try karo, par guilt mat karo agar nahi ho pa raha. 2) Minimum nutrition ensure karo — at least 2 meals din mein, chahe chhote ho. 3) Emotional eating trigger identify karo — "Kya main hungry hoon ya sad?" 4) Physical activity — weight ke liye nahi, mood ke liye. 5) Time do — body automatically regulate hogi jab stress kam hoga.
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